I have been a fiendish autodidact for the past 10 years…investing in every book, seminar, mentor, coach, and mastermind group I could get into.These are people who truly fell in love with the single way of life, who say: “Single is who I really am, it really suits me.I’m not against coupling, I choose to be single because it’s the kind of life that’s most meaningful and productive for me.”Unfortunately, many people searching for happiness think a relationship will fill that void and make them whole. Happiness is a state dependent on your inner decisions, not your external circumstances. Even if you do still dream of getting married, learning how to love you as being perfectly single will ultimately make you a better life partner later on. Small things done over time add up into pleasure, joy, and comfort. Small actions done consistently over time add up and become much larger things.
While there’s nothing wrong with this, many of these singles are wasting away what could be one of the most fun, enjoyable, and fulfilling seasons of their life.
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Those same things neglected over time lead to pain, disease, discomfort, and restlessness.
I either have a fully charged phone that I write notes into, or a pocket sized Moleskine notepad on me whenever I leave the house.
Some days I simply jot down whatever comes to me throughout the day, and other days I intentionally sit down with my writing receptacle and brain-dump for half an hour to an hour. Either borrow from the above list, or create your own prompts that work better for you.